Wednesday, July 11, 2012

On Rape, and Comedy

I'm never sure how much what I read on the Internet is the same as what other people read on the Internet, but I follow Andrea Grimes on Twitter, and she recently posted:



So, I clicked through and read this horrible story about a woman who fled a comedy show after Daniel Tosh joked about how it would be funny if she - the woman in the audience, who paid money to attend his show - were to be "raped by like, 5 guys right now?" And then of course, Twitter blew up - or at least my version of Twitter blew up - and I was reminded of this salient piece that addresses men - well, people in general really - who don't think the rape jokes are a problem. I don't remember when I first read it, but it hit a nerve.

"Virtually all rapists genuinely believe that all men rape, and other men just keep it hushed up better. And more, these people who really are rapists are constantly reaffirmed in their belief about the rest of mankind being rapists like them by things like rape jokes, that dismiss and normalize the idea of rape."

Now, I'll confess to be dubious about the statistic "6% of college-aged men will admit to raping someone in anonymous surveys." And you'll notice that the link in the original article is broken. So I searched just that statistic. The best info I could find was from a men's rights site that purports to transcribe the questions. Taking the site as its word, and in all fairness, the first question is pretty awful. I'd love to know the statistical breakdown of the remaining three questions that all characterize sex with someone "who did not want to" (i.e. rape). But there's no way to know.

 I don't really have a whole lot of commentary on this one, other than to say, rape isn't funny, jokes about it serve to support rape culture, and you all should read these links.

Wednesday, June 20, 2012

Are Women Funnier Than Men? Are Mentos Gluten Free?



Adam Corolla, made famous by The Man Show (of all things) ran his mouth into the ground and ignited a twitter frenzy by saying that, as a whole, men are funnier than women. Look, this guy is entitled to his opinion - and face it, that's all it is, the opinion of one dude whose entire career rests on the idea that men are different from women and one of these differences is in measurable amounts of funniness. But we shouldn't give weight to it by way of reply.

Stepping back for a second, let's recall that Corolla tried to support his absurd claim by saying that, “When you’re picking a basketball team, you’ll take the brother over the guy with the yarmulke.” So that's where he's starting from. A universe where it's okay to make broad generalizations based on race, religion and sex. Which, for me at least, means his opinion doesn't have a whole lot of value.

Because trying to argue about which ENTIRE GENDER is funnier than the other is a fool's errand. And instead of listing specific names of specific funny women (which is sort of the equivalent of listing all your black friends to prove you're not a racist), we should just reply with, that's absurd. It's absurd on two levels. First, whether something is funny is a subjective opinion (I happen to find the posts on Overheard in New York hilarious, my best friend, not so much), and completely incapable of being measured. (Though trotting out studies to the contrary is decidedly un-funny.) Second, it requires us to equate ALL men and ALL women. Or at least to average out each gender's collective traits. Humour isn't like height. There are no standard measurements.

Another thing to consider is that sometimes really funny people just aren't. Steve Carrell has made a couple wildly cringeworthy movies even though I think he's a comic genius. Tina Fey did that stupid anti-women-with-tattoos rant a few years ago and she's the reigning queen of comedy. So what of it? Why lend credence to the idiotic comments of a guy who is pandering to the lowest common denominator?

Friday, June 15, 2012

Enough Is Too Much

In this week’s New Yorker, Lizzie Widdicombe writes of Mayor Bloomberg’s proposed policy to restrict restaurants from serving sodas in containers larger than 16oz. The outcry against this sensible policy has been so hyperbolic that you’d think he was suggesting a federal mandate to purchase health insurance coverage.

You weren’t just imagining that snark – there’s been an uproar against Bloomberg’s rational (though paternalistic) policies – against smoking, transfats and now sugars – that likens them to Rockefeller era drug laws. It’s insane. It’s like comparing universal health insurance to mandatory broccoli.

Don’t get me wrong. Overall I think Bloomberg is a power hungry plutocrat hell bent on privatizing public services. But he’s got this right. The war on drugs fought an imaginary enemy, based on inflated claims of risk that demonized addicts and needlessly swelled our prison populations.

But how did we get obese? How did we end up manufacturing containers that could even hold up to a gallon of a corn syrup-based concoction meant for immediate consumption? For starters, by looking the other way when giant multinational corporations that specialize in food products – not foods – took over our movie theatres and our children’s schools.

So let’s step back and say, how do we deal with this? This real, legitimate public health policy concern of a populace plagued by morbid obesity, by unheard of rates of type 2 diabetes in children? Do we say, you can’t have more than sixteen ounces of soda? No. We say, you, peddler of soda, please don’t source your cups from these manufacturers who make colossal vessels unless you’d like to pay a fine. A fine to offset our city’s costs associated with children made ill by too much sugar intake.

We know that the corn industry propagated the “super sized” culture we live in – to find more ways to use up their surpluses. Tell me – where is the harm in allowing our public officials to offset that influence with narrowly tailored, easily implemented regulations designed to temper our natural American tendency to finish what’s in front of us, to clean our plates, to drink long after our thirst is quenched?

Bloomberg’s measures are a gentle nudge in the direction of normalizing our consumption. It’s a way of saying, let’s think about what we consume, and how much of it. Let’s just try having an eight ounce soda at dinner and see how that goes. Maybe we won’t need or crave or mindlessly consume giant portions at other meals, or between them, if we can manage moderation at this one. Not a ban, not a prohibition, not an outlawed substance or activity. Just a reasonably regulated indulgence.

Hm. Seems like that might just be the right way to approach a rational drug policy in this country too. Baby steps.

Tuesday, November 10, 2009

It's Not Just A Whitney Houston Song

When I was growing up, a boy who lived in my working class suburban neighborhood aspired to be "either a cop, or a junkie." He made this declaration on a crisp fall day when we were waiting for the school bus, and I remember wondering if he even knew what a junkie was, because so far as I knew, it was the exact opposite of a cop. In theory anyway. And also, not exactly a job.

On Monday, the United States Supreme Court heard the arguments on whether it is a violation of the Eighth Amendment (cruel & unusual punishment) to sentence non-homicide juvenile offenders to life in prison without parole.

This is one of those things that is uniquely American... in a bad way. When did we decide it was okay to lock kids up and throw away the key? We can focus on the vulgar criminality - a thirteen year old boy, for example, who raped a seventy-two year old woman - or we can stop and wonder how that child became a monster. He didn't get there by himself. What punishment would suit his parents? Teachers? Social workers? Clergy?

A long time ago, Hillary reminded us that it takes a village to raise a child, and when that child fails, it is a reflection of our deficiency.

News Roundup

Sniper John Allen Muhammad executed (CNN)

Murder suspect confesses to killing abortion provider (LAT)

Senate Plan Would Expand Regulation of Risky Lending (NYT)

Monday, November 9, 2009

All American's 5 Pledges

Glenn Beck and I have a lot in common. We were both raised Catholic, we were both born in February, neither of us has an appendix anymore. That said, there are some serious divergences. I recently read Beck's latest missive to Congress - a list purporting to set forth five "pledges" that, should our elected officials choose not avow, they'd be in breach of their duty to support, protect and defend the Constitution.

Like most Beckian diatribes, The 5 Pledges conflates more than a few unrelated issues, and sneaks in several political booby traps. Let's have a look.

To Congress, The 5 Pledges (Glenn Beck)

1. I believe in a balanced budget and therefore will vote for a freeze in government spending until that goal is realized.

All spending? So, no pens for the Defense Department? No toilet paper at the USDA offices? Or just no new items added to the budget? What if there's say, a hurricane, and FEMA needs some extra dough for sand bags? No? Okay, then.

2. I believe government should not increase the financial burden on its citizenry during a difficult economic times, therefore I will oppose all tax increases until our economy has rebounded.

What if those taxes are used to provide services which would reduce the overall burden on the citizenry of America? How about taxes on corporations whose annual operating budgets are $10 million or more?

3. I believe more than four decades of US dependence on foreign oil is a travesty, therefore I will support an energy plan that calls for immediately increasing usage of all domestic resources including nuclear energy, natural gas and coal as necessary.

According to the DOE, less than half of the oil consumed by the US comes from the Persian Gulf (16%) or Africa (21%). That doesn't quite sound dire enough to start increasing coal consumption. Sure, we've all got Black Lung, but hey, at least we're no longer consuming that wretched imported oil.

But seriously, Beck? What would it take for solar and wind power to make your list? How much cash would those burgeoning industries have to throw your way?

4. I believe in the sovereignty and security of our country and therefore will support measures to close our borders except for designated immigration points so we will know who is entering and why. I will vehemently oppose any measure giving another country, the United Nations, or any other entity power over US citizens.

On the anniversary of the fall of the Berlin wall, this point is especially ironic. That second part, though, is classic Beck. Never mind that the vast majority of Americans have rich immigrant histories, let's fuel the irrational fear that immigrants are out to get us by suggesting that the UN is trying to subjugate US citizens. Not quite sure where to even begin with that.

5. I believe the United States of America is the greatest country on earth and therefore will not apologize for policies or actions which have served to free more and feed more people around the world than any other nation on the planet.

Hey Beck, it's not all We Are The World out there, okay? If all we were out there doing was feeding and freeing people, I don't think anyone would be looking for an apology. But I hear you, we should be proud - we live in a great place where when most of disagree with the policies and actions of an elected leader, we get to just vote a new guy into office.

Sure, it's easy to mock someone else's list - let him do all the work, and then I can just tear it down. Fair enough. If I had to come up with five things I'd want to see from our legislative body in 2010, it would be this:

1. I believe in a balanced budget. For every dollar that goes toward bailing out big business, a dollar should go toward services that help individual citizens.

2. I believe a government should recognize the source of financial burdens and work to propose industry-appropriate regulations that would protect consumers.

3. I believe the United States should return to its position as a world leader in industry and technology. I recognize that fossil fuels and other unsustainable energy sources belong in our past, and will support initiatives to develop clean and green energy.

4. I advocate for the United States to become a world leader in human rights. To that end, our immigration laws require a ground-up overhaul that respects families and working people; promotes industry and investment; and engages reciprocity on a global scale.

5. I believe the United States of America is the greatest country on earth, and will not waste time giving lip service as an apologist. Through my actions as an elected official, I will work tirelessly to ensure that our great nation is admired around the world, and that we set the bar for forward-looking initiatives in energy, health care, human rights, jobs and education.

News Roundup

Leaders' call to action in Berlin (BBC)

Supreme Court Declines to Block Execution of Washington Sniper
(NYT)

Creator of website satirizing Glenn Beck on winning domain name case (Wiki News)